This little baby is 6 months old this week! Six months ago, I had no idea how much my life, my priorities, and my values would change with the arrival of this little girl. I had always planned on working once I had children, and with the creative profession that I have, I was hoping to do it ALL: have a career AND be a stay-at-home mom. That’s what feminists in my generation do, right? We do it all! However, familiar with my own tendency to over-commit, I also allowed myself the opportunity to be humbled and overwhelmed once the baby was born…how was I supposed to know what it would be like?

And now, on the flip side, things are very happy and joyous but also very taxing. For the past six months, I’ve had to cut out anything that is not 100% necessary. My friend is always asking me if I read the article he emailed me from Slate Magazine and I laugh because when the hell am I going to read an article? I’ve got a baby! And a business! And scientific collaborations! And a house to clean! I’ve stopped eating because those are precious minutes lost! And somewhere in there, Google+ came out and I thought, “Very cool, but when? WHEN?”
Now that the six month mark has hit, I feel like somewhat of a time management professional. My attention is like a laser. I get more done in 30 minutes than I used to get done all day, and it comes with an air of “survival of the fittest” to it. I feel lucky to have had a baby and be able to experience this, as it both forces me and guides me to choose what is most important in life at the drop of a hat, and nothing else before Lulu could give me that perspective.
Happy 6 month birthday, Lulu. Thank you for teaching me these lessons, and for being absolutely perfect.
by catthrasher
no comments